What is happening
Two fixtures reacting to each other means they are sharing a pipe that is not moving water freely.
Drains report problems indirectly. The fixture showing the symptom is often not where the trouble is, which is why the useful first question is not what is blocked but which fixtures are affected and when.
What usually causes it
In this area, four explanations cover most cases:
- A restriction in the main line downstream of both fixtures
- A venting problem pulling air through the trap
- Build-up in a shared horizontal run
- Roots at a joint below where the two lines meet
Which one applies changes the fix entirely, and they are not distinguishable from inside the house. We would want to see it before saying anything for certain.
What you can check yourself
Run the fixtures one at a time and note which ones react to each other. Two drains that respond to one another share a pipe, and that narrows things considerably.
Note whether it is getting worse gradually or started suddenly. Gradual usually means the pipe has been closing up for a long time. Sudden usually means something specific is in the way.
Narrowing it down
Note which fixture reacts to which. If the toilet responds to the shower but not to a distant sink, the shared section is between those two. That narrows where in the line to look considerably.
What guessing costs
The common mistake is treating the toilet, because the toilet is where the symptom appears. Repeatedly plunging a toilet that is reporting a main line problem achieves nothing and costs time.
When it is worth calling
If it has happened before, it is worth finding the cause rather than clearing it again. A drain that has been opened twice and returned twice will return a third time.
On this particular pattern, main line cleaning is the service that most often resolves it, though we would confirm that by looking rather than by assuming.